{"id":116,"date":"2005-01-05T01:05:39","date_gmt":"2005-01-05T11:05:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.theimpulsivebuy.com\/?p=116"},"modified":"2023-08-14T16:47:16","modified_gmt":"2023-08-15T02:47:16","slug":"the-100-simple-secrets-of-successful-people-by-dr-david-niven","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.theimpulsivebuy.com\/wordpress\/2005\/01\/05\/the-100-simple-secrets-of-successful-people-by-dr-david-niven\/","title":{"rendered":"The 100 Simple Secrets of Successful People"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"float:left;padding-right:10px;border:none;\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.theimpulsivebuy.com\/images\/successfulpeople.jpg\" alt=\"100 Simple Secrets of Successful People\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m slightly disappointed that I wasn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t a finalist in any of the categories I was nominated for at the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogmechanics.com\/bob\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Best of Blogs<\/a> (BoB) Awards (Thanks to <a href=\"http:\/\/ordinaryyam.blogspot.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Yam, <\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/contemblogging.blogspot.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Suzanne<\/a>, and <a href=\"http:\/\/gollybloghowdy.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mellie<\/a> for nominating me).  Honestly, I thought there was a slim chance that it would happen.<\/p>\n<p>Okay, I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m lying.<\/p>\n<p>I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m NOT disappointed at all, but just in case my non-disappointment turns into slight disappointment, I decided to read \u00e2\u20ac\u0153The 100 Simple Secrets of Successful People\u00e2\u20ac\u009d by Dr. David Niven.  <\/p>\n<p>For those who have read the Impulsive Buy for a while, you may remember that I reviewed another book by Dr. Niven, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153<a href=\"http:\/\/www.theimpulsivebuy.com\/index.php?p=70\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The 100 Simple Secrets of Happy People<\/a>.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d  I read it to help me remain happy as I dealt with a comment spam problem, which I have under control.<\/p>\n<p>After reading this book, I now have some simple secrets that will help me continue to be NOT disappointed by the fact I wasn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t a finalist at the BoB Awards. <\/p>\n<p><b>Simple Secret Number 39:  Learn from Losses<\/b><\/p>\n<p>So what did I learn from not being a finalist?  <\/p>\n<p>I learned that it&#8217;s okay to be a loser.  It&#8217;s okay that I can\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t win <a href=\"http:\/\/www.theimpulsivebuy.com\/index.php?p=71\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">class elections<\/a> or a woman\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s heart.  <\/p>\n<p>Good things happen to losers.  For example, take a look at Clay Aiken.  He went from being a loser to becoming&#8230;Um&#8230;A loser.  <\/p>\n<p>Okay, bad example.<\/p>\n<p><b>Simple Secret Number 64:  You Are Not in This Alone<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Yes, the Impulsive Buy is not alone.  There were several great blogs that didn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t end up as finalists that deserved to be, like <a href=\"http:\/\/webmiztris.diaryland.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Tiny Voices in My Head<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/in10sity.blog-city.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">I Think I Want to Be A Comedian<\/a>, and <a href=\"http:\/\/kirkkitsch.blogspot.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">My So-Called Strife<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I think we all should form the Special Olympics version of the BoB Awards, where EVERYONE is a winner and EVERYONE receives a medal.<\/p>\n<p><b>Simple Secret Number 81:  Be Realistic About Yourself<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Okay, we\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ve had some REALLY lame reviews, like <a href=\"http:\/\/www.theimpulsivebuy.com\/index.php?p=31\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Peanut Butter M-Azing &#038; Crunchy M-Azing<\/a> (The worst blog post EVER!), <a href=\"http:\/\/www.theimpulsivebuy.com\/index.php?p=46\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Sobe Adrenaline Rush<\/a> (A steaming pile of blogging doo-doo.), and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.theimpulsivebuy.com\/index.php?p=47\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Kellogg\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s Eggo Minis Chocolatey Chip Cookie Dough Waffles<\/a> (So horrible that it made poet <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Sylvia_Plath\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Sylvia Plath<\/a> want to kill herself again.), just to name a few.<\/p>\n<p><b>Simple Secret Number 83:  Own What You Do<\/b><\/p>\n<p>We weren&#8217;t a finalist, but I think the Impulsive Buy is bar none the number one quasi-product review blog in the entire blogosphere.  Although with millions of blogs out there, I could be wrong.  <\/p>\n<p>If I am wrong, I must find the other quasi-product review blogs and DESTROY THEM!!!  CRUSH THEM!!!  BEAT THEM!!!  BURY THEM!!!  THEN PISS ON THEM!!!<\/p>\n<p><b>Simple Secret Number 93:  You\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ll Get Knocked Down and Then Get Back Up<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Okay I really didn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t get knocked down, but I will pretend like I did.  Check this out.<br \/>\n<i><br \/>\nWhoa!<\/p>\n<p>Oh, no!<\/p>\n<p>Help!  I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ve fallen and can\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t get up!<\/p>\n<p>(End Scene)<br \/>\n<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Wow.  Now I feel even more NOT disappointed.  <\/p>\n<p>I guess this book really does work.<\/p>\n<p><i><br \/>\nEditor&#8217;s Note:  Honestly, go check out the BoB Awards.  There are some really good reads there.<br \/>\n<\/i><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><b>Item:<\/b> The 100 Simple Secrets of Successful People by David Niven Ph.D.<br \/>\n<b>Purchase Price:<\/b>  $8.96 (Amazon.com)<br \/>\n<b>Rating:<\/b>  4 out of 5<br \/>\n<b>Pros:<\/b>  An easy and fast read.  Inexpensive book.  I wasn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t a finalist at the BoB Awards, but I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m NOT disappointed.  I get knocked down, but I get up again.  You\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re never going to keep me down.  I get knocked down, but I get up again.  You\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re never going to keep me down.  (Yeah, Chumbawumba reference!)<br \/>\n<b>Cons:<\/b>  Um&#8230;Wasn&#8217;t a finalist at the BoB Awards?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m slightly disappointed that I wasn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t a finalist in any of the categories I was nominated for at the Best of Blogs (BoB) Awards (Thanks to Yam, Suzanne, and Mellie for nominating me). Honestly, I thought there was a slim chance that it would happen. Okay, I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m lying. 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